“All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler
is unaware.”
– Martin Buber
If you’re a Delta Gamma, chances are you’re a well-rounded
woman. The sorority has a wonderful international reputation, and so the women who
choose it in college are probably ones who desire high-quality organizations.
Then there is the Delta Gamma experience. While in a sorority in college, there
are more than just classes. There are formal meetings, social gatherings,
philanthropic events and rituals. After a Delta Gamma has graduated from
college, she’s been groomed to be multifaceted and have many interests. This,
combined with studies showing women have much less linear career paths than men,
means that Delta Gammas are likely to have at least one career change in their
lifetimes.
Take me for instance; I've recently changed careers. I am a
Delta Gamma from Zeta Iota chapter at Chapman University in Orange County,
California. I went from a career in marketing communications to teaching at the
graduate and undergraduate levels. I worked full-time and went to school full-time
at Pepperdine University for five years just because I love learning. Toward
the end of completion of my doctorate degree, I got called in for a teaching
interview at a local university and I was hired to teach on the spot. I had
never thought of myself as a teacher, but it turns out it’s what I had been
training for all this time. Also, I believe I received an aptitude to teach because
my mom and husband, two of the people closest to me, are both teachers. Perhaps
I partially acquired the aptitude to be a teacher subliminally through them.
You might be wondering how things went in the classroom.
Well, it was love from the very first time I taught. One of the things that all
Delta Gammas are taught is to “Do Good.” Teaching is all about doing good. In
fact, if you’re not there to do good as a teacher, you shouldn't be in the
classroom.
One of my friends is a compensation director. She is
analytical and plans things down to the last detail. She recently had a baby
and was extremely worried about doing everything right. When she told this to
her doctor, he told her not to worry so much about doing everything right
because it’s just not possible. The way to good parenting, he said, is to
parent from the heart. The same thing goes for teaching. As long as you teach
from the heart, the rest comes naturally. Looking back, I also realize that
since I went to school while working full-time, I was able to practice what I
was learning in my job.
The point of this story is to tell you that if you’d like to
change careers, have confidence in yourself. If you’ve been through college as
a Delta Gamma, chances are you've done many different things already. You probably
know much more than you think you know. If you’re thinking about a new career,
what are some things you’ve done in your current career that can apply to the
new one you desire? Some of the things that transferred for me were strong
interpersonal and communication skills and patience. Skills like these are
essential to do almost any job well. The rest comes with practice.
Women are often socialized at a young age to ask people if
they’re doing things the right way and not to do things unless they’re perfect.
Men, on the other hand, are taught to just do it, and they are allowed to fake
it till they make it. You can’t learn unless you make mistakes. So, go out
there and follow your dreams. You’re a DG! You can do it!
Dr. Margaret
Moodian, Zeta Iota-Chapman, and her husband, Dr. Michael Moodian, live in
Orange County, California with their rescue dog, Manny, and chinchilla,
Marshall. You can reach Margaret at mminni100@hotmail.com or follow her on
Twitter @mminni100.
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